用人不疑,疑人不用.
Trust the person you hire, don’t hire the person that you doubt.
I used to ignore this feeling in me, as I chose to believe that others may see things more thoroughly than me.
I chose to believe they were all kind in nature.
I chose to believe they all deserve a chance.
The only person I didn’t believe was myself.
恩斷義絕.
A classic line, I heard over and over again in recent times as I was watching a lot of Chinese period movies.
Every time good friends, lovers, kings and his confidants break ties.
They will all have their back facing each others back, and said this four magical words.
They all shed a tear, walk away and never look back.
I believe it’s really not easy.
How much pain a person have to endure, how much hurt they have to go through to have this kind of determination.
To say it out aloud and walk away.
Got introduced to this song after I watched clips on a reality interview show of Elva Hsiao.
The media of course sensationalised some of her words in an interview like “I’ve dated over 100 men”.
And of course many gave her nasty and horrible nickname since most of the men she is known to date were younger than her.
Well, in a lot of ways I envy and admire her. For her courage – to embrace what may come her way, her honesty – at least she is honest to herself and her feelings, and of course her confidence.
Hope she really doesn’t care what others have to say and just be herself and stay happy.
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我曾經以為在你身邊那也算永遠
可惜不是你陪我到最後
曾一起走卻走失那路口
你有多愛就有多痛.
Always two sides to everything.
The more you love, the more it hurts.
The happier you are, the sadder it becomes.
A remember a line in the movies I watch back then.
It says, pain is not when you have not loved or found someone you love.
Pain is when you found love, and lost it along the way.