Yeap yeap… well a sort of continuation from the previous blog. Can’t help it. There were so much stuff being talked in the wedding dinner table that it has to spread and continue at the mamak table.Â
Haha…. I know I know. I want to stop bragging about this issue but well, doctor love wants to know if he said any wrong things when he was drunk. Well… can’t help it. Gotta let him know what he has said and done.
Talks continue. Blah blah blah… and somehow it did ended up in the “love talk” time. I guess people who is in love always likes to talk about it. But this time doctor love make a rather shocking statement. A statement that open my eyes wide big about MANkind.
Dr. Love: I want to go home lar. Tired lah.
Gigi: So early? Last time you go back very late wor.
Dr. Love: Tomorrow gotta work lah.
Me: Hey.. you gotta work I also gotta work. I also not yet bising.
Gigi: Yeah lor.. dunno who that day say “you gotta work, I also gotta work”.
D: Dun kacau people lar. Need to go home and call dear dear lar
Me, Gigi and D: *laugh out loud*
Dr. Love: No lah. Your head lah. I dun do that okay
Me: Hahaha…. sure a not.
Dr. Love: Ya la. Don’t make it a habit okay!
Me: What you mean don’t make it a habit?
Gigi: Yeah. What do you mean.
Dr. Love: Yeah what. If you always call her then each time you gotta go home even in the middle of yum char and go back and call her.
Me: Habit? Then why not eat rice once a day. Don’t make it a habit to eat rice three times a day. Or maybe eat every three days. Don’t make it a habit to eat every day.
Gigi: Yeah. No one force you to do so. You guys willingly do it when you are courting her and when you guys first get together.
Me: No one ask you to walk off middle of yum char and go back and call her. You can always do it when you are back.
Dr. Love: Yeah right. Then they will wait for you and then merajuk coz you din call or call late.
D: Yeah. They will say “Lei ji mm ji ngor dang lei ding wah gah. Lei gu ngor mm sai fan gau gah”
Dr. Love: Yeah. It makes us feel guilty yum char you know. I go out yum char only not do anything wrong.
Me: No one say you are wrong. But is it really so hard to give them a call when you are back?
Dr. Love: Can not do that lar. If always do that already then one day you didn’t do they will say “YOU CHANGED. Last time you also not like this.”
Gigi:Yeah. No one force you to do so. You guys willingly do it when you are courting her and when you guys first get together. *repeatedly*
Gigi: If you can do it then, why can’t you do it now?
Dr. Love: You all don’t understand lah (favourite guys quote), when you got boyfriend then you know.
Me: Yeah rite. We all always don’t understand.
Dr. Love: Wait till you got boyfriend then you know.
Gigi: Yeah.. you wait lah then.
Dr. Love: Ya lah. You girls always also say you are right lar. Everything say you all right you all will be happy. Even you all wrong, but say you all right then you all will be happy.
Geez… I really can’t understand. I mean, is girls really the troublesome for you guys? Are we really that bad? If we are, they tell me why are you guys so dying to have a girlfriend then?
What Gigi say is right. When you court a girl, you will call her at night talk talk talk, sms non-stop and make full use of the 160 characters. Doing it day in day out for months and now you say can not make it a habit. And it is too difficult and troublesome to reach home and give your girlfriend a call? And you have got the gutts to blame us girls for saying “YOU CHANGED”. Wake up and smell the roses.
I know I know, you will say “You don’t understand”. We will never understand. “Try to understand”… we will always have to do all the understanding and we girls will always have a lot of understanding to do. Why not vice versa and you guys do the “Try to understand” part. Oh yeah… I forgot, you guys were so understanding that you don’t need to try anymore.
Why can’t you guys turn the table around and try to understand our point of view. But it’s always true, even if they knew or understand, they will still find ways to come back and cover up. They always got their excuses.
I just think, you better be the real you when you are courting girls, coz if you are not, you will just end up in one of those “YOU’VE CHANGE” situation. I would rather you not have a girlfriend than losing a girlfriend. Seriously, go home and sleep on it “doctor love”.